When you two were dating you probably enjoyed exchanging love pats on the rear end and maybe even an occasional “boob bounce” from time to time. Things were playful and innocent which made it sexy and sweet whenever the mood between the two of you got steamy. But as time went on, you started learning each other’s sexual temperament, or what I like to refer to as “tastes.” She has become demurer and you more refined. The once animalistic anything goes attitude has been replaced with “loving acts of affection.” There’s just one problem, you married the nasty woman. The one that walks up and shoves her tongue down your throat literally taking your breath away. The one that grabs YOU by the crotch as she stares into your eyes and feels your manhood grow behind her grip. And she refuses to let that die despite her pearls and pinned up hair. Now what?
I have heard this story time and time again from couples who have grown into the marriage maturity mode but one of them refuses to let the flame just smolder. I know lots of you will ask, what’s the problem with that? Well this type of disconnect makes for strange bed fellows and can have a very negative affect on an otherwise happy marriage. Fear not fellas! I have the solutions you need that will make your life and wife, happy again! Try these three tantalizing tamers:
- Claim your rightful place as the aggressor, if only for one night. People have different libidos and you and your wife are no different. While she has notoriously been the sexual hunter in your marriage, turn the tides so she can now get pounced on. Initiate the sexual encounter and make sure you add a few of her most enjoyed techniques.
- Get rough and raw! By simply adding some gentle scratches or a nibble or two, you can get your wife’s attention and make her feel like she still lights your flame all the way up.
- Give in to her. If she wants to recreate a wild night you two shared 11 years ago, go for it. If she wants to try something completely new like a vibrator, why not? It just may “shock” you!
After trying these simple fixes your wife is sure to be a lot happier in her nastiness AND will be ecstatic that she has a nasty man to live happily ever after with as well! Until next time, stay Spiced Up!